21 November 2012

The Perks Of Being A Wallflower - Stephen Chbosky



I think I was slightly too old for this book when it came out, so I missed it entirely.

That sentence probably encompasses most of the young adult section of the library, actually, so I should just stop typing it (fat chance).

But anyway. The book has finally (?) turned into a movie, and since I like Emma Watson I decided that I will probably watch it - but obviously not before I read the book, because that's just how you do in Book Blog Land.

You know.
The problem with being too old for a book isn't that I'm actually too old. I like YA fiction a lot. It's that I have a hard time getting into the headspace of a teenager without also being in the headspace of being a former high school English teacher; they're kind of inextricably linked at this point. [As a side note, I thoroughly enjoyed teaching English. It was hard and frustrating, but it was also surprising and hilarious every day, and I was really, really good at it. I wish teachers were paid appropriately so I could have actually supported myself in that job without needing a secondary income (i.e., a spouse). But that's a whole 'nother issue.]

Anyway, all that to say that I kind of want to sit the characters down and say, "this is not all there is. I know it's important and scary and very, very big right now. But it's not all there is." Except that they are teenagers which means they will look at me with that perfectly blank teenaged stare and think to themselves, "you don't know what it's like to be me. MY LIFE IS DIFFERENT!"

Oh yes, I remember being 16, and it. was. awful.

But this book was not! Especially if you happen to be 16 and need to feel all the feels.

7 out of 11 clandestine underage beers.

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You were a high school English teacher? That is awesome. That that is baloney that you had to stop because of out of date pay scales. GRADE A BALONEY.

I am on the same page, what with wanting to read this before I see the movie. And hey!! YA! Could this be good for our winter mini-readathon?
2 replies · active 644 weeks ago
"And that is baloney" ... not "That that". Clearly I needed a better high school English teacher.
Psh. You did just fine! And YES IT IS BALONEY. I worked 60 hours/week and didn't make enough money to pay my loans from getting my degree! Crap crap crap.

I dunno if this will work for the read-a-thon. What's the justification for it being "mini"? If you can find one, do it! And if not, we can make one up!
I read this when I was... 21 (I think) BUT I was also totally miserable and like LIFE IS SO HARD at the time so it was kiiind of perfect and meaningful and made me feel all the feels at the time, but I can see how it's a book that's kind of contingent on, like, the state of your brain chemistry at the time. But yeah, I'm never going to think it's awful, because it's really kind of lovely! (and sad. So so sad.)
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I totally get that. It's a book about being disassociated, so it would be easy to get into it if I myself were in that same headspace.

And even though it was indeed sad, I felt like it was more wistful than anything else - which is a feeling I very much associate with feeling sad and out of place.
That's awesome that you were an English teacher and LAME that they don't pay enough for it. Jerks.

I feel the same way about Perks. I read it too late (sometime after college) and while I could appreciate it and I KNOW 16 year old me would have been all over it, 24 whatever year old me just wanted to say "Hush, teens. You don't know anything."
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There you are! HI ALLEY WE MISSED YOU!

And yes. I really really liked my teenagers, but hooo boy. Being one was terrible. I'm re-reading Anne of Green Gables right now and it's so much more hilarious than I thought it was when I was younger. She's like the Anti-Perks.
I MISSED YOU! Thank you for not forgetting about me.

I didn't mind being a teen when I was one. But looking back it's a lot of hindsight face-palming
Ahh yes. I do a lot of that too! I didn't mind so much when I was a teen, as you say, but I think that's because I knew EVERYthing. Who doesn't like that?!?

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